Monday, March 28, 2022
Nature's Liquid Gold
Monday, March 21, 2022
Spring Has Sprung!
Monday, March 14, 2022
Signs of Hope
On Saturday our area was hit with what the weather forecasters were calling a 'bombcyclone." The snow came down so heavily at times that I couldn't see out of the window, and the winds were whipping so badly that I was sure a tree was coming down any minute. It was a tense 24 hours for sure. While we didn't get the foot or more of snow they were calling for, 9.5 inches isn't anything to sneeze at, either. So besides prayer and a good supply of candles and batteries (just in case), what got me through the "dark and stormy night?" This:
Monday, March 7, 2022
To Seed, Or Not To Seed
It occurred to me the other day that I have been living in the upstate New York area for 30 years as of March 1st. Part of it was spent about 45 minutes north of where I am now in the beautiful area known as Marathon. The rest has been spend "down south" of there in the village of Endicott, a lovely combination of country and town all rolled into one. So you'd think after all this time, and all the years I've spent learning and practicing gardening, I'd be able to know when to start my seeds indoors. If I've learned anything from the school of hard knocks, aka gardening via the self-taught method, it is that all it takes is a move a few miles north or south to change the position of the sun, the wind, and even a slightly different climate to move the start date of seedlings up or down a few weeks or even a month or more. Even if you take the predictions of the Farmer's Almanac as gospel, Mother Nature has the final say. One year the conditions will be perfect to start your seedlings indoors in March, and the next year even mid-April will be too early. The worst blizzards I have experienced in the 30 years I've lived up in this area have arrived in mid-March. I guess Shakespeare was right when he warned: "Beware the ides of March!" While I can certainly make use of grow lights and heaters, what goes on outside the walls of my tiny home has as much to do with starting seeds as what I do inside.
I like to think that life works the same way. We want to plant new seeds in life, to start something new, and make positive changes, but the conditions have to be just right. Start it too soon and the seeds won't be strong enough to grow into seedlings. Wait too long and the season will have passed. So how do we know how and when to plant those seeds? We can start by getting the right soil, compost, and lighting, preparing the ground or pot. If we're trying to plant positive changes, we can start by letting go of what's no longer working and replacing it with positive thoughts and actions, preparing our inner soil just the way we would the soil in our pots. Then we begin watching for signs. Most often those signs come from within. We'll start talking to ourselves in a more loving manner. We'll start taking better care of ourselves. We'll wake up one day and our spirits will know that this is the day! The sun will be shining, the air will smell like spring, perhaps we spy a few tiny green sprouts on the trees outside. Inside, our hearts will be telling us that it's time to open that seed package and sprinkle the tiny messengers of change over the soil you've prepared to receive them. Then just wait. Water, shelter them from unexpected cold, give them love and light, and behold, a beautiful new way of seeing the world will begin to grow. Before long, a whole new life will have bloomed! So get ready, prepare your ground of being, and listen. Spring isn't far behind.
And so it is.
Monday, February 28, 2022
Not Done Yet
Many years ago when I was just beginning my journey as a gardener, still "green behind the ears" (pardon the pun but it was just there and I had to use it), I was driving home from work one very hot Friday afternoon and decided to stop at a local Home Depot near my office to see what they had in the Garden Center that might look nice in my brand new garden. Not being very well educated in what would work well for my area of the state, my Zone, as they say, I figured talking to someone who knew plants might help.
As I walked around the Garden Center, I saw all sorts of beautiful, flowering plants and luscious shrubs, but what caught my eye was a large cart that held a mountain of dead or dying plants just waiting to be taken out back and dumped. Right on the top was a large pot holding something that looked like it was on its last legs ... or stems, as it were ... and I felt myself being drawn to it. I took out the little card sticking up out of the pot that told you what kind of plant it was and what its sun and watering needs were. It was a foxglove, a purple foxglove. I loved foxgloves. My heart hurt for this sad plant that was being tossed aside because it wasn't relevant any more. Once it had been a seed full of promise, now it was being discarded because in the eyes of others, it had no worth. I pulled back some of the drying leaves and dug my thumb nail into the stem. Sure enough, I saw green. I picked at a few other spots on the plant and found more green hiding under the brown. I picked up the pot and asked the guy watering the plants if I could have the foxglove.
"Sorry, ma'm, but that plant is on the garbage pile to be dumped out back for compost."
"Well, then, can I just take it instead of making you dump it? You'll be rid of it either way."
The man said that he'd have to check with the manager since he didn't think I could just take it out of the store without paying something for it even if it was headed for compost. He returned a few minutes later and said: 'You can have it for $3.00, but I think it's a waste of money," So I paid the $3.00 and headed out.
I had a 40 minute drive on a very hot, late afternoon with no working AC in my old car, so I stopped at the nearest dollar store and picked up a large bucket and two gallons of water. I put the plant in the back seat, emptied one of the gallons of water on the plant to submerge it, and drove like hell with all the windows open. When I got home, I added the second gallon to totally submerge the plant, put it in the least sunny spot for overnight, and told it I wasn't ready to give up on it yet. The next day I emptied some of the water until it was just at the right depth to let the leaves dry out but keep the roots moist and put it in the sun. On Sunday, I took it out and planted it. In two weeks it had established itself and was actually standing up on its own without staking. In three weeks I had big, beautiful, purple bell-shaped flowers that I swear were smiling.
We get to a certain age in life where we begin to feel irrelevant. We start out in life so full of promise and dreams for the future, then suddenly, before we know it, we look in the mirror and see this strange, old person staring back at us. People start to treat us differently when we're sporting grey hair instead of brown, and wrinkles where once our skin had been smooth and luminous. There are even times when people don't seem to see us at all. So what's the cure for people who no longer feel relevant? The same as it was for that foxglove: water, breathe, nurture, and plant in the sunshine. Feed and water yourself with positive thoughts, eat healthy and drink lots of water, get out in the sunlight (okay, take the sunscreen but you know what I mean), and smile ... lots and lots of smiling. Find something that brightens your spirit and sparks your curiosity. Pretty soon people will no longer be seeing grey hair and wrinkles. They'll be asking themselves: "What does she know that I don't, and how do I get some?" That's when you tell them: " Go plant a flower and smile."
And so it is.
Monday, February 21, 2022
Did He, Didn't He, And What's The Point, Anyway?
You may think it a bit odd that I would be writing about George Washington chopping down the cherry tree here at Flower Bear's Garden. Not at all. A cherry tree is part of nature and isn't that what I write about every week - how nature influences our lives? Also, as it is Presidents' Day, I thought it would be interesting to find a way to work it in. Never let it be said that I can't come up with a good reason for what I write, strange as it may sometimes seem!
The truth about Washington cutting down the cherry tree, as it was explained on the Mount Vernon website, is that it was the imaginative creation of Mason Locke, a minister-turned-itinerant bookseller and one of Washington's first biographers. What is more important is the moral of the story, for grownups as well as children: honesty is the best policy. From my perspective, it also reminds me that even if the cherry tree falls, all we need to do is plant a few seeds and a new one will grow.
So here is my take on the whole thing: If we are honest and truthful, even if we make a mistake, we can always plant new seeds and grow something even better. Happy President's Day!
And so it is.